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Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Please just listen!

Please Listen When I ask you to listen to me and you start giving me advice, you have not done what I asked. When I ask you to listen to me and you begin to tell me why I shouldn't feel that way, you are trampling on my feelings. When I ask you to listen to me and you feel you have to do something to solve my problem, you have failed me, strange as that may seem. Listen! All I ask is that you listen. Don't talk or do - just hear me. Advice is cheap - 20 cents will get you both Dear Abby and Billy Graham in the same newspaper. And I can do for myself; I am not helpless. Maybe discouraged and faltering, but not helpless. When you do something for me that I can and need to do for myself, you contribute to my fear and inadequacy. But when you accept as a simple fact that I feel what I feel, no matter how irrational, then I can stop trying to convince you and get about this business of understanding what's behind this irrational feeling. And when that's clear, the answers are obvious and I don't need advice. Irrational feelings make sense when we understand what's behind them. Perhaps that's why prayer works - sometimes - for some people, because God is mute. and he doesn't give advice or try to fix things. God just listens and lets you work it out for yourself. So please listen, and just hear me. And if you want to talk, wait a minute for your turn, and I will listen to you
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Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Keep the spirit alive

I guess it is normal struggling in the first step of our dreams. It is just another way to build  self foundation, strengthen the roots of our feet stepping on the ground. Stand strongly and have the ability to get up whenever anybody knocks us down on our knees. Everybody knows never easy to make a dream come true. Dreams require hard works, full efforts, spirits, self motivational, and of course miracle from Allah (GOD).

Everyone has their own spirit to face their life, however it depends on the person, they have strong or  weak spirit. Likely me, I personally have strong spirit inside me, no matter what they say or how much they feel weird toward my dreams or rolling eyes of disagreement. " True strength is keeping together when everyone expect you to fall apart ". They won't drear the light of spirit inside me. My dream is my hope, like water dripping on a dying plant, it gives  a live in a very small chance, it is a hope to continue the future which is lying ahead. it's a miracle in a small corner of the world.

I have a dream even I only have 1 to cent in my pocket. I have a dream because it is a hope when you feel just nothing be something. Dream is a light, to guide my path to the right direction when I have no where to go. A dream that make me more alive to face my life, more encouraged, work hard, responsible, and stand on my own feet. A dream which make me think more wise, really think of my future, positive thinking,  strong desire, and self believer, with God's help I shall not fail.

I am realized that I am a real dreamer, whenever I wake up early to rise and shine, to  face my activities when some people are pulling their blanket and continue to sleep, or whenever I burn the midnight oil turning every page of my books. I am working  so hard from body to mind and I hope I will achieve my goal in the near future. I know I am not alone because there are many dreamers in this world. I know I am not alone whenever I feel down God always stands by my side. Someone told me this " Rise your wings high to the sky but keep  your feet stepping on the ground so that you won't forget where you came from " . Means never be too proud till forgot GOD when you've got achieved what you wanted . I will remember this.

Keep believing that Dreams do come true, believe in yourself because if you don't believe in yourself how can you expect people to believe in you?. The future is belong to those who believe to the beauty of their dreams. Never afraid to shoot for the moon because even you missed it you will land among the stars. Keep spirit alive.
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Sunday, November 27, 2011

Everything happens for reasons.

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, to teach you a lesson or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.
You never know who these people may be, possibly your roommate, neighbor, professor, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger, but when you lock your eyes with them, you know at that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without over coming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential strength, willpower or heart.
Everything happens for a reason.
Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity, all occur to test the limits of your soul.
Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere.
It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet who affect your life and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you become.
Even the bad experiences can be learned from.
In fact, they are probably the most poignant unimportant ones.
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart to love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.

Make every day count.

Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again.
Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually listen.
Let yourself fall in love, break-free, and set your sights high.
Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you.
You can make of your life anything you wish!
Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.
Most importantly, if you love someone, tell them, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store.
And learn a lesson in life each day you live...
All in joy... love, peace and respect!

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Saturday, November 26, 2011

Make a Change

A little note for myself, a beautiful quote and spirit to keep me going.

" Even if the path is a little blurry you'll focus in when you know what you want, then the picture of your life will be CRYSTAL CLEAR, --Just Don't Give Up--." Happy in the first start, winning the success.

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Being strong that nothing can disturb my peace of mind that's what am I doing right now. To be happy and talk prosperity to everyone I meet, Have I ?? Hmm.. I am trying especially with my friends because they are part of my life and so my beloved one, I am trying to make all of them feel that there's something in them. They have a real meaning for me, and my sweetheart, he is my spirit. I am sweeping the dark side of my life and left only good one, forgetting mistakes of the past and press on the greater achievements of the future, looking at the bright side of everything and make my optimism come true, I hope!
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I think only the best, I work for my best, and I just expect the best. Being just enthusiastic about the success of others as I am about my own, keep believing in myself. Put on a cheerful countenance at all times and give every living creature I meet with smile, smile that bright the world, the spirit that never die. I think I should give much times to the improvement of myself so that I have no time to criticize others. Think that's wasting my time for nothing. I should think for the best and sweep away the difficulties, I am too large for worry, too noble for anger, and to strong for fear, I am too happy to permit the presence of trouble. Through imagination I keep think well of myself and proclaiming this fact to the world, not in loud words but IN GREAT DEEDS, Hoping and closing my eyes. drowning in prayer, living in faith that the whole world is in my side, so far as I am true to the best that's in me (myself).
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Friday, November 25, 2011

Gloomy gloomy Day

" Sometimes I just wanna sit at home as a Queen because My life doesn't hang over the internet "

That thought came up to my mind this evening and accidentally had upset someone, I didn't mean to offend anyone though, I was just trying to tell what I feel, maybe it was just short thought, you know basically I couldn't live without internet, but sometimes I just too tired to be here, to pop my eyes over line of words on the screen, and running my fingers through my keypads, sitting in front of my laptop with a cup of coffee and some snacks, doing some works and exercises, ah.............
I miss my world, my real world, where I can breathe with fresh air, see the bright morning, sun rising high, cold soft wind blowing, and the music of natures, I really miss all of them.

I found out that cyber really took out half of my life, I am looking  the best way to quickly get out of it, You know I am kinda addicted to the internet, and I'm trying to make it useful as possible. Internet has affected me a lot, my life, my love, my world. I don't say that internet is not something useless, because world is using it, it is part of human life, it's necessity, I learned a lot from it. But it's weird me for staying too long. I am not leaving though but I need some of times for my real world, real friends, real life. 

I am sorry

Sorry is not enough for my mistake, I apologize for him, hopefully he forgives my mistake, I don't mean to offend him, really, I feel horrible and really really really sad to know all this, I am saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaadddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd :(((((((((((

Thursday, November 24, 2011

Sing For Absolution

Sing For Absolution
This is the title of the song by Muse, Wanna know the lyric?

Well, I will type it down..
Here you are!!

Lips are turning blue
A kiss that can't renew
I only dream of you
My beautiful

Tip toe to your room
A starlight in the gloom
I only dream of you
And you never knew

Sing for absolution
I will be singing
And falling from your grace

There's nowhere left to hide
In no one to confide
The truth burns deep inside
And will never die

Lips are turning blue
A kiss that can't renew
I only dream of you
My beautiful

Sing for absolution
I will be singing
Falling from your grace

Sing for absolution
I will be singing
Falling from your grace


Our wrongs remain unrectified
And our souls won't be exhumed
You may view the video here!

I love this song very much, I like the lyric and I guess it's really meaning full. Hope you enjoy it :)


 Dreams pass into the reality of action.
From the actions stems the dream again; 
and this interdependence produces the highest form of living.
Without leaps of imagination, or
dreaming, we lose the excitement of possibilities.
Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning.
If a little dreaming is dangerous, 
the cure for it is not to dream less but to dream more, 
to dream all the time.
There is nothing like a dream to create the future.
The trouble with most people is that they think with their hopes 
or fears or wishes rather than with their minds.
A man's dreams are an index to his greatness.
To dream-means to live...forever.
I believe Without dreams life loses its purpose...
Dreams are always on a plane
higher than our capability.
So it brings out the maximum out of a person 
rather than settling for lesser things.
Dreaming is the secret of success!
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